Wednesday, June 15, 2016

Our Picks for the Best 2016 Beach Reads



It wouldn’t be summer without a trip to the beach!  Whether it’s for a weekend or a week, a beach close to home or one in a tropical locale, the idea of getting away from it all and spending countless lazy hours in the sand and surf is, in itself, relaxing!  I can smell the sunscreen and hear the seagulls!

But, at some point, you will come out of the water and either sun dry yourself or lounge in a beach chair…and do what? Well, you’ll do what we all do - pull out a good book!  These days, it may be more like, turn on and click open a good book but the idea is the same.  Books and the beach go hand in hand like Boardwalk Fries and lemonade.

A good beach book is engaging and a quick enough read that you can finish most of it before your sunscreen wears off. A better beach read is one that you’ll pick up after dinner while sitting on the balcony or deck.  Beach reading isn't necessarily "literature", but it will entertain.

Family & MWR has developed this list to help you choose an entertaining read that fits your personality, whether you like romance, thrillers or something smart but not too heavy. We’ve pulled together a couple of reading selections for men, women, young adults, and a couple of the classics.  With these beach books in hand, all you need to remember is your towel and sunscreen.

Please note that all book summaries were copy/pasted from BarnesandNoble.com
The Classics
To Kill A Mockingbird by Harper Lee
The unforgettable novel of a childhood in a sleepy Southern town and the crisis of conscience that rocked it.  Compassionate, dramatic, and deeply moving, To Kill A Mockingbird takes readers to the roots of human behavior - to innocence and experience, kindness and cruelty, love and hatred, humor and pathos.

The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy by Douglas Adams
Seconds before the Earth is demolished for a galactic freeway, Arthur Dent is saved by Ford Prefect, a researcher for the revised Guide. Together they stick out their thumbs to the stars and begin a wild journey through time and space.

The Little Prince by Antoine de Saint-Exupery
After being stranded in a desert after a crash, a pilot comes in contact with a captivating little prince who recounts his journey from planet to planet and his search for what is most important in life.

The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald
The story of the fabulously wealthy Jay Gatsby and his love for the beautiful Daisy Buchanan, of lavish parties on Long Island at a time when The New York Times noted “gin was the national drink and sex the national obsession,” it is an exquisitely crafted tale of America in the 1920s.

Men
The Mirror Thief by Martin Seay
A globetrotting, time-bending, wildly entertaining masterpiece in the tradition of Cloud Atlas.  This novel is an ominous modern thriller, a supernatural mystery, and an enchanting historical adventure story. Set in three cities in three eras, the core story is set in Venice in the sixteenth century, when the famed makers of Venetian glass were perfecting one of the old world's most wondrous inventions: the mirror.  Venetian mirrors were state of the art technology, and subject to industrial espionage by desirous sultans and royals world-wide. But for any of the development team to leave the island was a crime punishable by death. One man, howevera world-weary war hero with nothing to losehas a scheme he thinks will allow him to outwit the city's terrifying enforcers of the edict, the ominous Council of Ten.  Meanwhile, in two other VenicesVenice Beach, California, circa 1958, and the Venice casino in Las Vegas, circa todaytwo other schemers launch similarly dangerous plans to get away with a secret.

Invisible by James Patterson
Everyone thinks Emmy Dockery is crazy. Obsessed with finding the link between hundreds of unsolved cases, Emmy has taken leave from her job as an FBI researcher. Now all she has are the newspaper clippings that wallpaper her bedroom, and her recurring nightmares of an all-consuming fire.  Not even Emmy's ex-boyfriend, field agent Harrison "Books" Bookman, will believe her that hundreds of kidnappings, rapes, and murders are all connected. That is, until Emmy finds a piece of evidence he can't afford to ignore. More murders are reported by the day—and they're all inexplicable. No motives, no murder weapons, no suspects.

Women
Everybody Rise by Stephanie Clifford
The upstart heroine of this novel wages a one-woman assault on the old-money snobbery of the Upper East Side, before the Wall Street stock market crash of 2008. Evelyn Beegan, a new-money 26-year-old whose social-climber mother finagled her into the right prep schools, sells her soul in order to succeed in her first job at a social networking site called People Like Us. In order to win over those at the center of the young Upper East Side elite she spends more money than she has and lies about her own background to climb to the top of the social heap.

I Almost Forgot About You by Terry McMillan
Dr. Georgia Young's wonderful life—great friends, family, and successful career—aren't enough to keep her from feeling stuck and restless. When she decides to make some major changes in her life, quitting her job as an optometrist, and moving house and home, she finds herself on a wild journey that may or may not include a second chance at love

Young Adults
The Lie Tree by Frances Hardinge
Faith Sunderly leads a double life. To most people, she is reliable, dull, trustworthy—a proper young lady who knows her place as inferior to men. She and her family moved to the close-knit island of Vane because her famous scientist father was fleeing a reputation-destroying scandal. And she knows, when her father is discovered dead shortly thereafter, that he was murdered.  In pursuit of justice and revenge, Faith hunts through her father’s possessions and discovers a strange tree. The tree bears fruit only when she whispers a lie to it. The fruit of the tree, when eaten, delivers a hidden truth. The tree might hold the key to her father’s murder—or it may lure the murderer directly to Faith herself.

Every Exquisite Thing by Matthew Quick
Nanette O'Hare is an unassuming teen who has played the role of dutiful daughter, hardworking student, and star athlete for as long as she can remember. But when a beloved teacher gives her his worn copy of The Bubblegum Reaper—a mysterious, out-of-print cult classic—the rebel within Nanette awakens.  As she befriends the reclusive author, falls in love with a young but troubled poet, and attempts to insert her true self into the world with wild abandon, Nanette learns the hard way that rebellion sometimes comes at a high price.


If after you’ve read the synopsis of these books they just don’t grab you and scream “take me to the beach with you!” go to the JBM-HH Library and ask the staff for their recommendations.  The cool thing about having a library close to your job is being able to stop in when it’s convenient for you!

We hope you enjoy your beach trip, your days at the pool, or your stay-cation!  Be sure to post your vacation pics on Instagram, search JBMHHFMWR!

Thursday, June 9, 2016

Yes! There Are Ways to Improve Your Commute!

























We already know we’ll face skeptics and that’s ok.  If you’ve ever driven to or from work in the madness we call affectionately call…well, never mind what we call it…  Let’s just say if you’ve ever driven to or from work or school on any road leading into or out of DC, Maryland, or Virginia – your commute is probably one excruciating minute after the other until you finally reach your destination some 45 minutes to an hour later (and in some cases, much longer than that).

It seems that very few people actually keep up with the flow of traffic.  Well, who are we kidding?  There is rarely a flow of traffic but rather a few opportunities to quickly pass a driver who’s driving 10 or so miles under the speed limit…in the far left lane no less.  Breaking free from the oppressive and slow pace feels good for the eight seconds you have before you hit the back end of a delay that ultimately had no root cause.  You know those delays where you inch along for twenty minutes and then – ALL OF A SUDDEN! – you’re back at speed like, “What in the name of Sweet Baby Jesus was the hold up?!”

If you manage to get through all of this…the dump trucks that have a terminal velocity of 45 miles per hour, the out-of-towners who are a little nervous to be driving with us maniacs, and those who’ve just passed their driving test…you’ll probably arrive to your destination angry, white-knuckled, frustrated, and not in a very good mood.  It’s understandable.  It happens to the best of us.  Every. Single. Day.  BUT! The good news is, Family & MWR has found a few ways to help you get through your commute.  No, we don’t have jet packs and we can’t approve telework (sorry!) but if you’ll just drink the kool-aid and try one or two of our suggestions, you may arrive to your final destination a little more relaxed and maybe even just a little bit smarter.

Carpool
Don’t face the madness alone!  Find a few people going your way and set up a carpool.  You’ll only have to drive one week out of the month, but that’s ok.  When it’s your turn to drive, you’ll have people in the car you can talk to to help keep your mind off of the traffic.  When it’s not your turn to drive, you can spend your commute sleeping, catching up on email, or providing your own brand of comic relief for the driver.

Wake Up Earlier
Granted, this is not anyone’s favorite thing to do but in reality the best way to improve your commute is to avoid driving when everyone else is on the road. There’s another benefit to leaving home earlier.  You get off from work earlier!

Listen to Music
“Music soothes the savage beast” or driver in this case.  Make a playlist of your favorite songs from this decade or a past one and get your jam on while you drive to work.  You’re a lot less likely to communicate with hand gestures if you’re singing to a favorite song.

Catch Up On Your (audio) Reading
Originally produced in the 1930’s for those with sight challenges, audio books became mainstream in the 1990’s.  I can remember being huddled in a living room chair listening to Kathy Bates read “Silence of the Lambs.”  Her version of that story is beyond creepy.  If horror thrillers aren’t your cup of fava beans, there’s a subject in a genre written by an author you will love!  …and FYI, the JBM-HH Library has a ton of titles for you to download!

Learn a Language
While many of us are still learning English, we have to admit that English is no longer the language of the world.  The internet has brought Mother Earth and her citizens into close contact with each other.  With that being said, the time has come for us to refresh, refine, and hone our high school Spanish, German, or French…or your Serbian if you’re married to a Pejcic.  Again, the JBM-HH Library has access to FREE language software that you can use on any mobile device to learn a new language.  Learning to “parla italiano” will be easier without the distractions of children, pets, and phones and your commute is the perfect place to find quiet time.

Get an (unofficial) Education
Ancient Rome, nuclear physics, World War II history – in today’s world, there’s an online lecture series for almost any interest.  Many university websites offer free online audio classes or you can download courses through Apple’s iTunes U Courses.  iTunes U courses are regular college classes minus the credits.  Professors have recorded their lectures for anyone to listen to so there is ample brain-bending material to listen to during your commute.

Make a Mental Gratitude List
Many people believe that the universe will only gift you with things you are thankful for.  Take time during your commute to make a mental list of those things and people you’re grateful for.  It’s kind of hard to be a road-rager if you’re counting blessings.  …and be sure to make mention of those blessings that are on the way!

Listen to a Podcast
These wonderful little gems are a hidden treasure.  No one seems to be listening to podcasts but they’re awesome!  A podcast is an audio broadcast that is distributed over the Internet. It usually has a format similar to a radio show. Because little equipment is needed to record a podcast and the Internet is used as the distribution medium, virtually anyone can create one and distribute their thoughts and opinions to the world and just like online courses, the range of topics is staggering!  You can listen to a podcast about history, travel, or any other subject discussed in a serious tone or in a humorous way.  Visit one of these sites to search for interesting podcasts to follow:  Revision3, Mevio, the iTunes store, or gPodder.

Here are a couple of podcasts we’ve heard a lot about:
* The Nerdist – Nerds. Interviewing people like Jason Alexander.
* The Art of Manliness – Be a (better) man. 
* Serial – One big story told one week at a time.
* Completely Optional Knowledge – The show that answers questions you never knew you had.
* Surprisingly Awesome – The hidden awesomeness in everyday things

Ok, so, we know commuting - as a rule - is not cool.  People don’t seem to be following the same rules of the road. A twenty-five minute drive can quickly turn into an hour long drive, or longer depending on the weather.  Unfortunately, we can’t really do anything about that.  But we can do things that help us deal better with the people we have to share the road with and use what time we have to spend on the roads in a beneficial way.  We hope you find one or two things on this list that will help you better enjoy your commute!  …and please leave a comment below if you have a way to improve our commute that we didn’t list!

Wednesday, June 1, 2016

Super Cool Summer Date Ideas!


Whether you’re a couple who have a couple of anniversaries under your belt or a young couple still seeing stars in each others eyes, the summer months are just the time to explore and have fun together.  But summer is only three months.  What we don’t want is the “What do you want to do?”…”I don’t know, whatever you want to do” conversation to take place…and last all summer.  So, Family & MWR has come to the rescue and put together a list of Summer Date Ideas for your and your other half to enjoy.

Below, is a list of Summer Date Ideas From A to Z.  There are 13 weekends from the start of summer (June 20, 2016) to the first day of fall (September 22, 2016).  If each weekend has 3 days (Friday, Saturday, and Sunday), that’s a total of 39 days to enjoy your loved one and go on some truly great dates!  So, get your calendar out to start making plans and start make memories!

Summer Date Ideas From A to Z
A – Arcade (there’s a new Dave & Busters in the Springfield Town Center)
B – Bowling (try Glow Bowling at the JBM-HH Bowling Center.  It’s awesome and affordable!)
C – Camping (take another couple or two and go pitch a tent in a local state park)
D – Drive-In (yep, there’s a couple around here. Our favorite is the Family Drive-In Theater in Stephens City, VA)
E – Exercise (go for an early morning tennis date or a bike rode along the Potomac River)
F – Festival (the festival circuit in the DC Metro area is always buzzing! Google it and see what’s upcoming)
G – Host a Couples Game Night
H – Hiking (been to Great Falls?)
I – Ice Cream (go to an old fashioned ice cream parlor and share a sundae.  Try Ben & Jerry’s in Old Towne Alexandria)
J – Enjoy a free jazz concert in the park (they have free concerts on The Mall quite often)
K – Karaoke (don’t be embarrassed if you can’t sing.  Most people singing karaoke can’t sing...just saying.)
L – Live Show (see a play, comedy show, or live band)
M – Medieval Times (the JBM-HH Leisure Travel Office sells discounted tickets!)
N – Nats Baseball (being at Nationals Park is a MUST during summer.  It’s electric!)
O – Outdoor Movies (Family & MWR offers Dive-In Movies June-August.  Watch a movie from the middle of our pool!)
P – Picnic (this one is a “gimme” but who doesn’t love a romantic picnic?)
Q – Quadruple Date (Invite your best couple friends to bring their best couple friends to bring their best couple friends…and make some new friends!)
R – Random Acts of Kindness (add money to an expired meter, offer to pump gas for a senior citizen, etc).
S – Stargaze (take a blanket to the park and stare into infinity, bring appropriate music)
T – Tag, as in laser tag (there are courses in Springfield and Woodbridge)
U – DC’s U Street Corridor (find culture, food, and parties on this famous street)
V – Take a day trip to a local vineyard
W – Waterfront (the Potomac River Waterfront on the Maryland side of the Woodrow Wilson Bridge is way cool)
X – Xplore new foods (play “eenie, meenie, miney, moe” to pick a new place for dinner and go there to eat, try a place with a rooftop deck)
Y – Saturday morning yoga in the park …oooohhhhmmmm….
Z – Zipline (there are a few zipline courses in the area.  Book a date and hit the ropes!)

There you have it!  Twenty-six super fun ideas for dates you and your special other can enjoy over the summer months!  Please take pics and share the good times with us on Instagram. Tag us @jbmhhfmwr!

And, as always, if you have a great idea to include, please leave a comment below!


~pmjp